(Originally published on November 24, 2008)
Thanksgiving and Christmas are so interwoven for me that I couldn’t wait to share this true story of my life. This Christmas experience is a big part of the reason I grew up knowing just how much I have to be thankful for each and every day.
1950 was a hard year. My father died and my mother was left with two small children. She was a “housewife” and had no particular marketable skills. She also didn’t have any family who could help her much. She was a recovering alcoholic and suffered from severe depression. Not a pretty picture.
This, of course, was long before the social workers, welfare, food stamps, WIC, or any of the alphabet soup government offices and “programs.” All she had was her faith in God and her children, the few friends who stood with her, and the understanding that it was her responsibility to raise her children and get on with life the best she could.
So, the winter of 1950 found us all staying with a friend’s family in a small Southern California desert town. Not the rich and beautiful part, but the dirt road, snowed in, wood stove outback of the Morongo Valley. There was no telephone or reliable transportation.
I was only four years old, so I have no idea why Mother moved there with no jobs available within fifty miles, any direction. The people we stayed with were living on a small pension and he was dying of lung cancer. Mother had $138. a month in Social Security Survivor’s benefit. Everybody had big troubles, make no mistake.
Some of this I remember myself, and much is remembered because we talked about this period so often, but I didn’t really understand any of it at the time, of course. I knew we were cold much of the time and seldom had enough to eat, but I don’t feel “damaged” or “traumatized” by any of it. Much the opposite is true. I know what it is to be cold, hungry and homeless. I remember that sometimes and thank God for all my blessings. We had each other and lots of love. We didn’t know poverty was supposed to scar us for life.
Christmas Eve came and we put up what decorations we had. (People didn’t ordinarily start to decorate for Christmas after Thanksgiving dinner in those days.) We had a branch of creosote bush for a “tree,” and there was one, small, handmade gift for each child under it. Soon wonderful smells came from the kitchen, and when we gathered for supper we were all surprised to learn that the only thing on the table was a large bowl of bread pudding.
In later years my mother often told us how she and Virginia mixed together the last remaining bread, milk, eggs and sugar with a few raisins and some cinnamon. They put it into the oven with a prayer, and we said our usual prayer of thanks before we ate it. Only the adults knew that those were the last morsels of food left in the house and that none of them had any idea when or how they would be able to get anything else until the next pension check came in on the first. I can only imagine their agony – and their faith.
Christmas morning broke clear and very cold. The snow wasn’t deep, but it stretched unbroken for many miles in every direction. We certainly didn’t anticipate company, but up the road came the county snowplow with a lone blue car behind it. The county never plowed the road by our house, so it was a mystery until the car pulled into our driveway.
Out popped Virginia’s mother! She had shamed the plowman into making a path for her, and he helped her unload boxes of groceries and other things. The children were too busy to notice, however, because we each had a wonderful felt stocking full of nuts, candy and a few small toys. Then, at the very bottom in the toe, was a huge shining orange! Those were worth their weight in gold then and had been very rare in our lives to that point. I can’t begin to tell you what it meant to us as we jealously watched our orange peeled and then savored each drop of the golden fruit.
From that date, Christmas has been a most blessed day. Mother went on to work hard, earning a living for her family. She made sure, by what magic I’ll never know, to have at least one big and beautiful orange in our stockings each year from then on. She told us it was to remind us of the past so that we would appreciate our lives and all the blessings we had. She made sure we never forgot to plan our Holy Day with others in mind.
There was always another place at our table, a few warm clothes to “spare,” a bed on the couch, or just the human touch of hugs and clasped hands for someone in need. She remained active in AA, and sponsored many a man and woman to health and life. Nobody ever left our home hungry, unclothed, uncomforted or unloved unless they wanted it that way.
I have spent my adult life trying to walk in that path. No Christmas passes without oranges, though it’s been years since I made bread pudding. I thank God there was no welfare, food stamps, etc. I would never have had the privilege of that “perfect Christmas.”
God bless and keep you all.
Libertarian Commentary on the News, #12-50E – States and guns
Home Front
Best/worst run states in America
(24/7 Wall Street): Based on several dozen factors, here is the business publication’s listing, in part:
1. North Dakota
2. Wyoming
3. Nebraska
4. Utah
5. Iowa
6. Alaska
7. South Dakota
….
29. Colorado
….
46. New Jersey
47. Arizona
48. Illinois
49. Rhode Island
50. California
Nathan: The only one that comes as any sort of surprise is Arizona, and the only state in the West to be in the bottom 10. (NO, I do NOT consider California or Oregon or Washington as a whole to be part of the West.) In the top 10, the only surprise is Iowa: I work in Iowa now and then, and the state is bureaucratically bloated even more than Colorado. But apparently they know basic math, unlike Colorado. Having a passing familiarity with several of the states in the top 10, the scary part of this story is simple: IF North and South Dakota and Wyoming are among the BEST, seeing how incredibly stupid and inefficient and overbearing and servile to DC THESE states are, the rest of the country is truly and completely well-done.
It is also very interesting that this list pretty much follows a list rating state governments’ positions on a basic human right: that of self-defense. I talk about that in the next story’s commentary.
Mama’s Note: Personally, I’d rank New Jersey, Illinois, and California a tie for dead last.
Mainstream media – Our right to defend ourselves
Surprise! NY Times Pushes Obama On Gun Control
(NY Times via JPFO E-mail newsletter) President Obama’s fleeting mention of the need for stronger gun controls at a presidential debate last month was hardly the kind of forceful political statement needed to address the scourge of gun violence in this country. Even his tepid remark was considered by the nation’s gun owners as a threat to take away their firearms. In what amounts to a buyers’ panic, they are again ramping up gun and ammunition sales as they did four years ago, convinced that Mr. Obama intends a gun-control crackdown. Mr. Obama talked about starting “a broader conversation” about reducing gun violence. The best place to start is in Congress, which has been grossly negligent toward constituent safety for the past 20 years as it bows to the demands of the gun lobby.
Nathan: As JPFO’s folks pointed out, Congress SHOULD be negligent about ignoring or getting rid of that “pesky First Amendment.” The thing is, the NYT is growing more and more bizarre as their panic seeps in: we knew that they were a bunch of scum bags, but the degree of their cluelessness continues to surprise a lot of us. I can’t beat what the JPFO folks said:
The Times worries about the “30,000 lives lost to gun violence every year.” What they don’t tell you is that around half of those are suicides. Of the remaining, in 2010 (the latest year for data), 8775 were from crime, the rest accidental. That’s with over 270 million privately owned guns. I wonder how many crimes were prevented because someone owns a gun? Hmmm, an estimated 2.5 million ? And women are the most likely to be saved by owning a gun? And most shootings involved criminals killing other criminals? Oh, and women are the biggest recipients of being able to show a gun to someone who is looking to harm them?
When you look at WHERE the crime is – including those 8775 dead from guns – you see that most of those are in those badly-run states listed above. And no surprise: those states are FAR more concerned about such critical items as preventing state endorsement of religion (by having Christmas trees), equal rights (by twisting the definition of marriage to allow homosexuals to “marry” each other), properly teaching human sexuality (to kindergartners), how badly people’s self-esteem is bruised by requiring an ID to vote (or get welfare), and of course, ensuring that “women have rights” by making sure that babies (of any sex) do NOT. Which leads to the JPFO’s last comment.
Perhaps the Times should be concerned with the 1 million plus abortions this year.
Onward Forward!!!
Meanwhile, other people keep having to defend themselves, some without guns, thanks to groups like the Times.
Self-defense
Florida: Valrico store clerk grabs gun, fights off robber
(Plant City Courier) “A gas station clerk in Valrico thwarted a robbery by grabbing the barrel of an armed robber’s gun and pushing him out of the store, according to the Hillsborough County Sheriff’s Office. About 7:10 a.m. Thursday, the gunman entered the Mobil Mart at 2510 Highway 60 E. in Valrico, east of Miller Road, and demanded money from the store clerk, according to the sheriff’s office. That’s when the clerk grabbed the barrel of the revolver and wrestled with him, eventually pushing him out of the store. The suspect ran south from the store without getting any money.” (11/28/12)
Mama’s Note: That’s doing things the hard way! Glad he didn’t get shot.
Nathan: I wonder what the regulations of the company and the laws of Valrico are to keep the clerk from being able to protect himself without such risk. What if the clerk had been handicapped; say, in a wheelchair?
Home front – Our right to self defense
FBI crime stats: You are more likely to be killed by hands and feet than by a shotgun or rifle
(Daily Caller) “The FBI has released their 2007-2011 ‘Murder Victims by Weapon’ report. The results are contradictory to anti-gun industry claims that relaxing the ban on assault weapons will cause more crime. The report indicates you are more likely to be killed by hands or feet than by a rifle or shotgun.” (11/27/12)
Okay, so of COURSE the MSM (like the NYT) and the Tranzis will immediately recant, and the First Citizen will move to change their act – and ban hands and feet.
Home front – War on some drugs
Indiana State Police chief to lawmakers: Legalize and tax pot
(The Raw Story) “The top cop for the Indiana State Police on Tuesday advised a group of state lawmakers that marijuana be legalized and taxed. Speaking at a budget committee meeting, Superintendent Paul Whitesell noted that both Colorado and Washington had decriminalized small amounts of the drug for recreational use. ‘It’s here, it’s going to stay, there’s an awful lot of victimization that goes with it,’ Whitesell said, according to radio station WFPL. ‘If it were up to me, I do believe I would legalize it and tax it, particularly in light of the fact that several other states have now come to that part of their legal system as well.'” (11/28/12)
Oh, my, now that Colorado and Washington have done it, the facade is starting to crack all over the place. Wonder if he is figuring just how much money they can suck out of those two bastions of state control of every aspect of life, Illinois (particularly Chicago) and Ohio. I can picture block after block of cannabis supermarkets all along Gary’s border with Illinois. (And Raum Emmanuel building the Chicago Wall to prevent the traffic!) What fun!